Do not let the conditions of your life define you. Rather, use them as a way to experience yourself as something greater than what they represent. Bless them and see them as a useful tool with which to create yourself out of your experience.
Nothing in life is real, nor does anything have any intrinsic meaning except the meaning that you give it. You are always at choice to decide what everything means through the context of your experiences, and who you choose to be in relationship to them. Never ask why something has occurred the way it has. Instead, decide what it means to you, then choose a response that best reflects your highest thought about who you wish to be. All of life is a gift with which to create the perfect opportunity to express perfection in, as, and through you. Simply notice what is so, then decide what aspect of yourself you next wish to experience.
Your decisions, the emotional responses to the events of your life, are always based upon one of two emotions, love or fear. That’s it. Decisions based upon love are always without condition, limitation, or restriction of any kind. They will always yield unity, inclusion, freedom, inspiration, choice, giving, sharing, healing, and growth. Decisions based upon fear are always exclusive, judgmental, and condemning in nature. They will always yield retribution, disunity, separation, competition, aggression, violence, and stagnation.
Who you are is pure love, but you have learned fear to protect you from God, from others, from life, from love, even from yourself. Every moment in life is an opportunity to bring the love that you are to your human experience. This has always been your one true purpose; to define yourself in the remembrance of God.
When the soul comes into the physical realm, it is limited in the expression of itself by the body it chooses. The journey then becomes one of getting the body to do the work of the soul, which is to be as God is. In every life, the soul will eventually decide when it can do no more with a particular body, and it will shed the costume it has been wearing and eventually choose another, and another, and yet another until it has fully realized, that is made real, the complete expression of the love of self within the physical experience.
Relativity is what keeps the illusion of the physical realm together. It is the relationship of all things to each other and it is the greatest gift to creation for without this paradox, nothing could exist. It is only in the presence of what you are not, that what you are, is. Bless therefore, all the seemingly negative events and circumstances of your life because without them you would not be able to experience your world.
Life is the ever evolving process of accepting all that is, then choosing the best, the highest, and the greatest thought that you have ever held about yourself. It is always about choosing God in every moment and in every breath. This is who you are. This is what your souls longs for. It is the kingdom of heaven on earth, lived consciously and deliberately through each and every one of you.