The greatest gift you can give to another is to see them as who they truly are. Refuse to accept appearances. Refuse to believe what others choose to believe about themselves. Always have a higher thought about another and invite them to do the same.
Yet honor where others choose to be in their own lives. Do not require them to accept your higher view, merely hold it out as an invitation.
Always be compassionate. If others choose to see themselves as beings needing assistance, do not reject them for their faulty assessment, but allow them to love their reality, and lovingly assist them in playing out their choice.
Understand that for some the fastest path to realizing who they are is the path through who they are not. Do not condemn therefore another‘s path, but see it as perfection, and support them in their choice to be just who they choose to be in that particular moment.
When giving to another the help they honestly desire and not just the help you think they need, strive to empower them instead of making them dependent upon you. Unconditional love is not only the granting of exactly what someone has asked for, it is the offering of all that is available to them as well. This is the greatest gift there is.
Yet honor where others choose to be in their own lives. Do not require them to accept your higher view, merely hold it out as an invitation.
Always be compassionate. If others choose to see themselves as beings needing assistance, do not reject them for their faulty assessment, but allow them to love their reality, and lovingly assist them in playing out their choice.
Understand that for some the fastest path to realizing who they are is the path through who they are not. Do not condemn therefore another‘s path, but see it as perfection, and support them in their choice to be just who they choose to be in that particular moment.
When giving to another the help they honestly desire and not just the help you think they need, strive to empower them instead of making them dependent upon you. Unconditional love is not only the granting of exactly what someone has asked for, it is the offering of all that is available to them as well. This is the greatest gift there is.